Divorced ladies searching friendship

Hello again Hi, it's been a while since I posted on 's list. After responding to a lot of ads I got tired of all the bots, spammers, and "girls" who redirected me to other sites. Any way I figured I'd give it a try from this end. PLEASE if you are GOING TO DIRECT ME TO ANOTHER that is going to charge a fee or wants card info-DON'T BOTHER. Save my time and yours-just because you get someone to sign up for one of these "dating" sites doesn't mean that there isn't something wrong with them! I assure you the best way to get to know someone 's intentions is to communicate with them-e-mail at first, then talking to them on the , then meeting in a PUBLIC PLACE. If we exchange several e-mails I"ll give you my number and you can block yours when you , if that makes you feel safer. And I don't collect pictures-come on with all the billions of on the web already-lets be real. I really don't want ANY of those kind of responses. PLEASE put something in the response like "I READ YOUR AD AND I'M REAL " because I'm getting to the point where I'm just gonna start deleting anything that looks like a response. Sorry I had to go on so long about this but it's starting to get frustrating. Ok- now a little about myself-I'm in my late 40's but I take real good care of myself ( I could probably pass for thirtyfive to thirtynine) foot ten inches tall, two hundred lbs ( solid), brown hair, light facial-upper lip/ , blue/green eyes. I consider myself better than average to good looking. I work out regularly and love riding bikes (not motor), sports, and being outside. I work as a musician and also do massage . I love and playing (not the dramatic type though). I would like to meet an intelligent female between the ages of twenty and , preferably without (I don't have any, however are not a deal breaker-they just tend to complicate things) who is reasonably attractive, loves life and having fun, and is also in fairly good or better shape. Any way if you think you might be interested e-mail me back and let's begin to get to know each other. Evcn if you don't feel like you match exactly what I'm looking for feel free to give it a shot, you never know. I do have on the web-I'll let you know where when you respond. After all I've been through in last few years, one thing I know is LIFE IS TOO SHORT to let it pass you by and I don't want to wind up wondering what could have been! Thanks for reading all this and good luck!